{"id":7715,"date":"2026-04-11T23:12:44","date_gmt":"2026-04-11T23:12:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.healthoptibody.com\/?p=7715"},"modified":"2026-04-13T03:32:51","modified_gmt":"2026-04-13T03:32:51","slug":"three-is-the-magic-number-having-too-many-children-is-more-unfulfilling-than-having-none-at-all-researchers-find","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.healthoptibody.com\/?p=7715","title":{"rendered":"Three is the magic number! Having too many children is more unfulfilling than having none at all, researchers find"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Having too many children is more unfulfilling than having none at all, academics have discovered.<\/p>\n

Parents with more offspring than they wanted reported the lowest levels of life satisfaction in a survey of more than 23,000 adults.<\/span><\/p>\n

It comes as fertility<\/a> rates in Europe hit a record low \u2013 with British couples having just 1.4 children on average.<\/p>\n

Researchers at the University of Berlin<\/a> analysed data from the German Socio-Economic Panel Study that asked participants how many children they had and how many they ideally wanted.<\/p>\n

They divided the cohort into five groups: those who were child-free by choice, those who wanted children but couldn’t have them, parents who had their ideal number of children, and those who had more or fewer than desired.<\/p>\n

Participants then rated their overall life satisfaction, taking into consideration factors such as work-life balance and relationship status.<\/p>\n

Results showed almost everyone fell short of their fertility desires. But only one group experienced a clear decline in mental wellbeing \u2013 those who had more children than they had wanted.<\/p>\n

However, not having children \u2013 whether by choice or circumstance \u2013 was not linked to lower wellbeing.<\/p>\n

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Having too many children is more unfulfilling than having none at all, academics at the University of Berlin have discovered<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Parents with more offspring than they wanted reported the lowest levels of life satisfaction in a survey of more than 23,000 adults<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Dr Laura Buchinger, the study’s lead author, said: ‘Exceeding one’s fertility desires was robustly linked to lower wellbeing in both women and men.’<\/p>\n

The phenomenon is likely a result of the hidden costs of parenthood, the researchers suggested.<\/p>\n

Dr Buchinger added: ‘Our results suggest that the stronger sociocultural expectations placed on women are offset by the heavier burdens of motherhood.<\/p>\n

‘By contrast, women without children have more time for career pursuits, financial independence, and the development of social networks and hobbies \u2013 all factors linked to healthy aging.’<\/p>\n

Previous research has connected motherhood with lower self-esteem and relationship satisfaction, due to the physical and emotional labour typically shouldered by women.<\/p>\n

Mothers are responsible for more than 70 per cent of household tasks, whereas fathers handle just 43 per cent, a 2025 study revealed.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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