It may seem like an innocuous habit, but your partner always walking ahead could be a major warning sign, say experts.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘If your partner is constantly walking ahead of you, it can hint they’re setting the pace and direction without you, or not feeling close,’ says counsellor and psychotherapist Hannah Lewis.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Walking ahead now and then is normal. But if they rarely walk beside you, it can show low awareness of you, less warmth, or a need to lead.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘It’s about patterns, not labels, and context matters.’\u00a0<\/p>\n
Moving ahead of your partner isn’t always a red flag, Ms Lewis adds. People with long legs, mobility issues, or temporary pain may naturally walk faster.<\/p>\n
But it can also signal a lack of care\u00a0\u2013 and be a sign of a controlling personality. And it becomes especially concerning when paired with certain other habits.\u00a0<\/p>\n
So when should you be concerned about your partner’s walking style?\u00a0<\/p>\n
In general, says Ms Lewis, your other half rushing ahead to catch a train or dodge a crowd is harmless \u2013 particularly if they’ve not realised you’ve been left behind.\u00a0<\/p>\n
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<\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n‘If your partner is constantly walking ahead of you, it can hint they’re setting the pace and direction without you, or not feeling close,’ says counsellor and psychotherapist Hannah Lewis.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
Says Ms Lewis: ‘It becomes a pattern when, day after day, they stride ahead, rarely glance back, and expect you to keep up.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘If walking ahead makes you feel ignored, left behind, or even unsafe in other parts of the relationship, it’s worth paying attention.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘This can reflect how much they notice or prioritise your presence overall.’<\/p>\n
A caring, attuned partner would act differently, she points out\u00a0\u2013 actively checking in and matching your pace, asking if you’d like them to slow down or pausing when you stop to look at something.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘They’ll take your hand in busy areas, wait at crossings, or subtly adjust their stride to stay with you,’ says Ms Lewis.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘The difference is intention: an attuned partner is trying to keep you included and safe, not just get somewhere first.’<\/p>\n
If you feel your partner is often speeding ahead of you, bring it up with them, advises Ms Lewis.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Does your partner often interrupt you? It could be another red flag…\u00a0<\/h3>\n\nSays psychotherapist Hannah Lewis: ‘Another small behaviour that can reveal a lot about a relationship is when one partner consistently interrupts or talks over the other in conversations, especially in front of other people.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Everyone occasionally cuts in when they’re excited or when a discussion moves quickly, so an isolated moment isn’t necessarily meaningful.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘But it’s worth paying attention to a pattern. If someone repeatedly overrides their partner, finishes their sentences, or redirects attention back to themselves, it can suggest that they’re more focused on controlling the conversation than genuinely listening.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Over time, this can leave the other partner feeling dismissed or invisible.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘If the relationship dynamic doesn’t involve space for both people to speak and the willingness to pause and listen (even if the topic feels trivial), it can indicate a lack of respect.’<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n
‘Keep the focus on your feelings rather than their personality,’ she says.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Say something like, ‘I feel left behind when you walk ahead. Can we walk together?’ Avoid labels or blame.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Request small, tangible changes and observe their response over time.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘This approach gauges whether they notice you and can meet you halfway, without creating defensiveness.’<\/p>\n
Likewise, she says, look for patterns as the behaviour often echoes elsewhere.\u00a0<\/p>\n
This may be noticing them cutting you off mid-sentence, making decisions without asking, ordering for both of you at restaurants, or moving on when you pause to look at something.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Alone, says Ms Lewis, each action might seem minor or situational, but together they can indicate a habit of leading rather than partnering.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Over time, patterns like this can reveal a tendency to control or dismiss your voice,’ she explained.\u00a0<\/p>\n
To test what’s really going on with your partner, try switching roles for a week, suggests Ms Lewis, so the slower walker sets the pace.<\/p>\n
‘Agree to pause at corners, let each person choose the route, or time short walks together,’ she explained.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Watch whether they can follow without rushing, interrupting, or taking over decisions.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘You’re not testing perfection, you’re seeing if they’re willing to share pace, attention, and choices.’<\/p>\n
Other seemingly harmless red flag signs could also be going on right under your nose.<\/p>\n
A partner who seems to be always on their phone when you’re speaking could indicate a deeper issue with the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n
This becomes especially relevant when it\u00a0happens during moments that should involve connection in intimate one-on-one conversations or serious discussions, says Ms Lewis.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Once again, occasional distraction is completely understandable \u2013 we live in a world where our phones are always nearby \u2013 but when it becomes the default response and the partner is only half listening it can signal a lack of emotional presence,’ she explained.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Watch out for if they do this expressly during emotional moments, because they can be disengaging from it completely.’\u00a0<\/p>\n
Finally, a partner who often commandeers plans\u00a0\u2013 repeatedly choosing where to eat, what to watch, or how the weekend should be spent without asking for input\u00a0\u2013 could\u00a0suggest a dynamic where one person’s preferences dominate.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Says Ms Lewis: ‘On its own, picking the restaurant or film might seem harmless. The issue appears when the other partner rarely has a chance to influence those choices or feels that their suggestions are brushed aside.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Over time this kind of pattern can create a sense that the relationship revolves around one person’s needs while the other adapts.’<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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Says psychotherapist Hannah Lewis: ‘Another small behaviour that can reveal a lot about a relationship is when one partner consistently interrupts or talks over the other in conversations, especially in front of other people.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Everyone occasionally cuts in when they’re excited or when a discussion moves quickly, so an isolated moment isn’t necessarily meaningful.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘But it’s worth paying attention to a pattern. If someone repeatedly overrides their partner, finishes their sentences, or redirects attention back to themselves, it can suggest that they’re more focused on controlling the conversation than genuinely listening.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Over time, this can leave the other partner feeling dismissed or invisible.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘If the relationship dynamic doesn’t involve space for both people to speak and the willingness to pause and listen (even if the topic feels trivial), it can indicate a lack of respect.’<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n
‘Keep the focus on your feelings rather than their personality,’ she says.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Say something like, ‘I feel left behind when you walk ahead. Can we walk together?’ Avoid labels or blame.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Request small, tangible changes and observe their response over time.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘This approach gauges whether they notice you and can meet you halfway, without creating defensiveness.’<\/p>\n
Likewise, she says, look for patterns as the behaviour often echoes elsewhere.\u00a0<\/p>\n
This may be noticing them cutting you off mid-sentence, making decisions without asking, ordering for both of you at restaurants, or moving on when you pause to look at something.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Alone, says Ms Lewis, each action might seem minor or situational, but together they can indicate a habit of leading rather than partnering.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Over time, patterns like this can reveal a tendency to control or dismiss your voice,’ she explained.\u00a0<\/p>\n
To test what’s really going on with your partner, try switching roles for a week, suggests Ms Lewis, so the slower walker sets the pace.<\/p>\n
‘Agree to pause at corners, let each person choose the route, or time short walks together,’ she explained.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Watch whether they can follow without rushing, interrupting, or taking over decisions.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘You’re not testing perfection, you’re seeing if they’re willing to share pace, attention, and choices.’<\/p>\n
Other seemingly harmless red flag signs could also be going on right under your nose.<\/p>\n
A partner who seems to be always on their phone when you’re speaking could indicate a deeper issue with the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n
This becomes especially relevant when it\u00a0happens during moments that should involve connection in intimate one-on-one conversations or serious discussions, says Ms Lewis.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Once again, occasional distraction is completely understandable \u2013 we live in a world where our phones are always nearby \u2013 but when it becomes the default response and the partner is only half listening it can signal a lack of emotional presence,’ she explained.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Watch out for if they do this expressly during emotional moments, because they can be disengaging from it completely.’\u00a0<\/p>\n
Finally, a partner who often commandeers plans\u00a0\u2013 repeatedly choosing where to eat, what to watch, or how the weekend should be spent without asking for input\u00a0\u2013 could\u00a0suggest a dynamic where one person’s preferences dominate.\u00a0<\/p>\n
Says Ms Lewis: ‘On its own, picking the restaurant or film might seem harmless. The issue appears when the other partner rarely has a chance to influence those choices or feels that their suggestions are brushed aside.\u00a0<\/p>\n
‘Over time this kind of pattern can create a sense that the relationship revolves around one person’s needs while the other adapts.’<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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